This week at Heartland Church we are continuing our Alternative Lifestyle series looking at Living Life in Community. 

We've talked in weeks past about how intentionally choosing to live alternatively to those around us and to follow Jesus is not an easy thing to do. It takes intentionality, hard work and discipline to make significant changes to our lives.

The truth is though, that the journey of pursuing an Alternative Lifestyle becomes exponentially more difficult when we try to do it on our own, because God has created us for community.

How many of you have ever tried to make significant lifestyle changes on your own? How successful were you? Statistics show that when we invest in making changes to our lives while surrounded by a support system of other people, we are much more successful than when we try to do it alone.

God never intended for us to journey through life on our own. We see in God's own triune nature (Father, Son and Holy Spirit) that he himself is a communal being. 

When God created Adam, the first man, he said, "It is not good for man to be alone" (Genesis 2:18) and he created a woman to be with him. 

God established his covenant with a community of people (the nation of Israel) who did life together. 

The book of Ecclesiastes speaks of the power of community and relationships. "Two people are better off than one, for they can help each other succeed. If one person falls, the other can reach out and help. But someone who falls alone is in real trouble. Likewise, two people lying close together can keep each other warm. But how can one be warm alone? A person standing alone can be attacked and defeated, but two can stand back-to-back and conquer. Three are even better, for a triple-braided cord is not easily broken." (Ecclesiastes 4:9-12)

In the New Testament we see Jesus living and doing ministry in community with his disciples. We see the establishment of the New Testament church, to which the Apostle Paul referred to as the Body of Christ - many parts who all need one another.

God has called us to live an Alternative Lifestyle and one of the ways we do that is by choosing not to journey through life alone but to surround ourselves in community. It's not always easy but it's one of the ways we begin to experience the fullness of life that Jesus came to give.

How are you doing at surrounding yourself with other people and doing life in community?

This week at Heartland Church we continue our Alternative Lifestyle series looking at the topic of Living Life on Purpose. The phrase Living Life on Purpose has a dual meaning in my mind. 

On one hand it speaks to the intentionality behind what we do... we are intentional and purposeful in the things we do. This is vital to following Jesus down this alternative path of living. When we talk about going against the norm and living according to an alternative way, that doesn't just happen by accident. We have to be disciplined, intentional and purposeful about the decisions we make. It takes hard work to live differently... do it on purpose!

On the other hand the phrase Living Life on Purpose also speaks to the idea of living toward the mission or purpose I was created for. The truth is God has created each one if us with a unique calling and has given us each unique gifts and personalities to fulfill the purposes he has for our lives. Ephesians 2 speaks of the salvation God has given us by grace alone and in verse 10 says, "For we are God's masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, SO WE CAN DO THE GOOD THINGS HE PLANNED FOR US LONG AGO." 

A big part of the challenge of learning to live this Alternative Lifestyle is discovering the purpose that God has for our lives and then making a decision to intentionally (purposefully) live according to it.

Will you live your life on purpose?

This is a powerful video in lieu of what we are talking about during our Alternative Lifestyle series. Are you giving God everything or just going through the motions of religion?

What does it mean to worship God? What does it mean to be devoted to him? For many of us we define these things in terms of portions of our life that we take to do something for God. Worship is something we do on Sunday morning at church when we sing together. Devotions are when we take time to pray in the morning and read a few verses from our Bible. But is this all that God is looking for in our worship and devotion? Is this the standard he has set for us?

Jesus seems to set the bar much higher. He states in Luke 10:27 that the greatest commandment ever given to those who would follow him is to "Love the Lord your God with ALL your heart and with ALL your soul and with ALL your strength and with ALL your mind..." Apparently Jesus isn't interested in having part of our love and devotion, he wants ALL of it! Have you ever thought about what it means to worship God with ALL of who you are?

The Apostle Paul reiterates this same principle in Romans 12 when he says "I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God's mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God - this," he says, "is your spiritual act of worship." So apparently worship isn't about singing songs to God or taking time pray in the morning or reading a few verses from the Bible, although those things can be an important part of our worship and devotion. True worship is about giving ALL of your life to God and not just honoring him in certain moments with certain portions of your life, but seeking to honor him every moment of every day with ALL of your life.

What adjustments do you need to make in your life to worship God with ALL of who you are?

This week at Heartland Church we are starting a new series called "The Alternative Lifestyle." The proposition of an "Alternative Lifestyle" suggests that there is another lifestyle that this is the alternative to. Each of us make decisions on a daily basis, both consciously and subconsciously, about how we are going to live our lives. And whether we realize it or not, our culture has a lot to say about what is the "normal", "acceptable" way to live. Many of us spend our lives trying to keep up with what is "normal," in the hopes that we can fit in, be accepted or even be popular and famous.

Scripture speaks to these life choices over and over again. The Bible often talks about what is considered a "normal" practice or way of thinking in the world but then offers an alternative way of thinking and acting for those who would follow after Jesus. Apparently, according to God, those who would be his followers should think and act differently from those around them. God offers an alternative to normal way of doing things and according to Jesus, it's this alternative lifestyle that leads to the abundant life he came to give, or as the NLT states, "a rich and satisfying life." (John 10:10)

There is one particular verse that has always struck me in this discussion about the choice to live a "normal life" like everyone around me or the "alternative life" God calls us to in Scripture.

Matthew 7:13-14
^"13 Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. ¹⁴ But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it."


According to Jesus words in Matthew 7, the normal way of living (the broad path that everyone else is on) may be easier... and it may be more comfortable... and you may have a lot more friends on the journey... but it leads to one place, destruction. But the narrow path (the alternative way of living) although it may be more difficult... it may be more lonely... people may not understand you... but it leads to life!


So often we are so consumed with what feels good here and now that we forget about the final destination where our choices lead us. Think for a minute about what's "normal" today... stress, anxiety, busyness, being overworked, lonely, depressed, debt, brokenness, broken relationships, broken families, anger, bitterness, hatred, divorce... the list could go on and on. These are the destinations that pursuing a "normal" life has led us to. But Jesus offers us an alternative... peace, comfort, hope, joy, patience, love, acceptance, forgiveness, wholeness, healing... the list too could go on and on.


Which destination do you want to end up at? It's my hope that as we explore this alternative lifestyle over these next several weeks, that each of us would make a conscious choice to follow Jesus down the narrow path and begin to experience the fullness of life he came to give. Let His Kingdom come!